INDIVIDUAL THERAPY

RELATIONSHIP THERAPY

ATTACHMENT

SEX THERAPY

Clara Hayes MA, LMFT

she/her/hers

License #204621

In-person at 107 S Lewis St. Suite 201, Round Rock, TX 78664

Telehealth also provided to those located in Texas

ABOUT ME

I see individuals working through issues of identity, sexuality, attachment, body image, and relationship difficulties.

If you're grappling with anxiety or fear about entering a new relationship, feeling dissatisfied with your patterns of relating, or find yourself consistently drawn to a certain "type," I’m here to help you discover what's true to you.

I work with couples, polycules, and families that would like to deepen their sense of connection, their ability to repair from conflict, and form a stronger bond. Even the strongest relationships suffer from periods of distance, past traumas interfering with connection, and patterns that keep us dissatisfied and frustrated.

In my sex therapy specialty, I have experience with desire mismatch, sexual trauma, out of control sexual behaviors (OCSB) and porn use, erectile issues and premature ejaculation, sexual pain, low libido, navigating asexuality, kink/fetish, and more.

My passion for sex therapy is rooted in my belief that pleasure is a human right. Yet, for so many of us, we face continuous obstacles to accessing and living in pleasure- both sexual and non-sexual. Whether it’s from a lack of sex education, sexual trauma, systemic oppression, or simply not knowing what sexual pleasure is for you, I’m here to help.

I’m a queer therapist and aim to hold a safe space for 2SLGBTQIA+, BIPOC, and neurodivergent individuals.

My pronouns are she/her/hers.

Find pleasure once again

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Reconnect with your partner(s)

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Heal relational trauma

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Talk about the hard things

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Find pleasure once again · Reconnect with your partner(s) · Heal relational trauma · Talk about the hard things ·

My services

50 minutes - $150

80 minutes - $240

Free 15-minute consultations to see if we’re a good fit.

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    Sex Therapy

    Explore your sexual issues and concerns. Sex therapy is like talk therapy focused on sexual issues, with specific interventions based on the issue. No nudity or sexual relations occurs with the therapist.

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    Attachment

    Human beings are wired for connection, but sometimes we learn connection isn’t safe. Attachment work is how we heal.

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    Couples and Relationship Counseling

    Some reasons relationships come to me might be for affair recovery, sexual issues, communication and conflict resolution, exploring polyamory, premarital counseling, and managing differences.

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    Pleasure Groups, Workshops, and Intensives

    Let’s close the pleasure gap together. I’m passionate about helping my clients with low desire learn more about what pleasure looks like for them!

MY APPROACH

My approach is warm and caring, but straightforward when necessary. I know what it’s like to want my therapist to call me out on my BS, and if you need that, I’m here for it (in the kindest and most compassionate way).

I work through an attachment lens, as the research shows that our early relationships and experiences can inform how we attach to those we love as adults. This means we may not only explore your current hurt, but the root of where that pain comes from. I help my clients become more comfortable accessing and learning from their emotions, experiences, and body's signals.

When it comes to sex therapy, I’m sex positive and will never “yuck your yum.” I encourage my clients to find their authentic sexual selves.

If you like to nerd out and do research like me, you might read about Emotionally Focused Therapy, Mindfulness, Somatic Therapy, and Parts Work. These are the therapeutic models that ground my approach.

Qualifications

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the State of Texas, License #204621

Master’s in Counseling, St. Edward’s University

Completion of EFT Externship, Montana EFT

Trained in the Attachment Injury Repair Model

Completed training in Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy at 2020 Psychotherapy Networker Symposium

Completed a one-year internship at a relationship and sex therapy clinic under the supervision of an Emotionally Focused therapist.

Completed two years as an associate at a relationship and sex therapy group practice under the supervision of a senior sex therapist.

  • "Clara approaches her work with a combination of disarming authenticity, deep passion and vast intellect. These traits combined with her therapeutic skills create the ideal space for her clients to explore sex and relationships. I highly recommend Clara!"

    Hilary Neblett, LPC Associate Supervised by M. Michelle Hawn, LPC-S

  • "Clara radiates kindness and warmth, not only in her role as a therapist but also as a fellow human. Her passion, thoughtfulness, and expertise in her specialized areas are undeniable. I frequently recommend her to folks seeking couple's counseling!"

    Bailey Van Cleave, LPC Associate Supervised by Sarah Walters

LET’S CHAT

Reaching out is the first step.

Let’s chat!

If you or someone you love is having a mental health emergency or is experiencing a crisis, please dial 988 for the 24/7 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, dial 911, call the Travis County 24/7 Crisis Hotline 512-472-HELP (4357) or proceed to your nearest emergency room. I do not currently provide on-call crisis services.

For my trans clients, you might also consider the Trans Lifeline: (877) 565-8860

clarahayes@embodiedsextherapy.com

512-277-3463⁩